Scott has some wise words of wisdom. Please listen. It is alright to vent and then let it go. We all have things our STBX has done that are NOT right, NOT fair, and the system will NOT be giving us justice. But, if you don’t let it go, it will destroy you. It will eat you up from the inside out. See a divorce lawyer and get the best deal you can, join a support group like divorce care, go to meetup.com and look at the groups/clubs in your area that you can join. Get out and rebuild yourself. It will save your sanity, help you to recover and heal, and allow you to MOVE ON.

— In Divorce_Recovery@yahoogroups.com, Larry Delgado wrote:
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> doesn’t anyone get it? why wife was able to plan a divorce for 3 years ruining my credit, taking my money, home, investments, pets, second mon and dad, her brothers, little billy who used to call me uncle larry, my dignity and I am supposed to act like i can go on!!! This —snip— took everything she possibly could and telling me she loved me all the time. when I confronted her is was a cold hollow look she gave me and she said “I have only begun to do what I am going to do to you”. She has the law, pasture baker, her friends, our neighborhood, etc. fooled and she doesn’t want to talk to me at all. Why? Because I do know and remind her of the guy she married and she stole from, and through out in the streets with nothing after living in our house for 10 years. Wendy Delgado you call your self a deacon?
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> From: Scott Bryce
> To: Divorce_Recovery@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Tue, March 16, 2010 9:23:58 AM
> Subject: Re: [Divorce-Rcvy] Re: How cruel can my deacon wife be?
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> Larry Delgado wrote:
> > Wendy Delgado you will get what you deserve,
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> You need to let it go. Yes, I know it hurts, but you are doing far more
> harm to yourself than you are to her. Feel your hurt. Mourn your losses.
> Then move on and leave her in God’s hands. You have such a big log in
> your own eye, that there isn’t any way that you can deal with the speck
> in hers.
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> You are letting her control you. All she has to do is curl her hair and
> put on a tight pair of jeans, and she completely has you under her
> control. You can’t keep living this way. What size jeans she wears and
> how she wears her hair are HER problems, not yours.
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